Inger Kier has met in her Psychologist Office clients with Anorexia and refusing food as a behaviour problem. She has now looked at her own childhood, when she lost her little brother, when she was 5 years old. In Psychodynamic Therapy they worked in the therapy "here and then" and looking för repeating pattern in adult life and in childhood. She can see, that she developed a pattern after her little brother´s death., which was a trauma in her family. She analyses anorexia and rejection and her lack of aggressivity after her little brother´s death.